The Sin of Gossip

1. The sin of gossip and its temptations
   1.  Identifying gossip
      1. Things to consider
         1. Basis
         2. Verification
         3. Intent
         4. Context and audience
   2. Why we gossip
      1. It functions as a power move
      2. It provides a false sense of connection
      3. It provides an escalation of self-interest
   3. What gossip reveals about us:
      1. pride
      2. foolishness
      3. insecurity
      4. envy
      5. distrust
      6. lack of integrity
      7. lack of empathy
      8. unresolved anger
      9. a heart in need of Jesus
2. The danger of gossip
3. The antidote to gossip
   1. Repentance
   2. Renew your mind
   3. Practice the pause principle
   4. Seek accountability

Reflection Questions:

What criteria can you use to determine whether a conversation crosses the line into gossip?

How do the factors of basis, verification, intent, and audience shape your discernment?

Proverbs 26:22 suggests that gossip can feel satisfying, like a “choice morsel.” Why do you think gossip can create a false sense of connection? What alternative ways can we cultivate genuine relationships?

In what ways does gossip serve our own interests at the expense of others? How do Philippians 2:3 and 1 Corinthians 10:24 challenge us to move beyond selfish ambition in our speech?

Romans 1:29-30 includes gossip in a list of serious sins. What does this reveal about its impact on individuals and communities?

Can you think of a real-world example where gossip caused significant harm? How did it affect the individuals and community involved?

Proverbs 10:19 and James 1:19 emphasize the wisdom of measured speech. What practical strategies can you implement to slow down and consider your words before speaking?

How might accountability with a trusted friend or mentor help you overcome the temptation to gossip?